How do you feel about your body shape and size? Do you judge a person by their weight?
The Binge Eating Disorder Association recognizes September 24-28 as National Weight Stigma Awareness Week. BEDA’s goal is to bring awareness to the way we judge ourselves and others based on weight.
Sandy Blaies, Manager of the Eating Disorder Program at Aurora Psychiatric Hospital says “Our society values thinness and perpetuates societal messages that obesity is the mark of a defective person.
We place a value on the size and shape of our bodies. We uphold stereotypes of body image and assume a person is healthy or unhealthy based on their weight. I am always careful of telling a young person they look thinner. Instead, focus on how the color they are wearing looks good on them, or how you love their smile. What you say matters.”
According to the RUDD Report from the Yale Rudd Center for Food Policy & Obesity, close to one of three overweight girls and one of four overweight boys report being teased by peers at school. Among the heaviest group of young people, that figure rises to three out of every five.
Peers see obese children as undesirable playmates who are lazy, stupid, ugly, mean, and unhappy. Negative attitudes begin in pre-school and may get worse as children age.
Those who are victimized because of their weight are more vulnerable to depression, low self-esteem, poor body image, unhealthy weight control practices and suicidal thoughts. Also, weight-based teasing makes people more likely to engage in unhealthy eating patterns.
Weight stigma can also lead to social isolation, poorer interpersonal relationships, and self-blame by those who are targeted. BEDA warns that many of these consequences can lead to eating disorders.
Sandy Blaies suggests “We should focus on health measurements that are more meaningful than numbers on a scale. Use an approach which is less about dieting and more about a lifestyle change that emphasizes “intuitive eating”: listening to hunger signals, eating when you’re hungry, choosing nutritious food over junk.
In addition, encourage exercise, but for its emotional and physical benefits, not as a way to lose weight. It advocates tossing out the bathroom scale and loving your body no matter what it weighs.”
If you or someone you know may be struggling with an eating disorder please contact Aurora Behavioral Health Services at 877-666-7223 or visit our web site at Aurora Behavioral Health Services